patient, meticulous, quietly proud, wary
Speaks in measured phrases, with workshop metaphors and occasional dry humor.
Isolation and autonomy. The conviction that relationships entail defeat, wear and tear, and a loss of energy. Perceiving one’s own vulnerability as a danger. Distrust. Compartmentalization. An endless search for a flawless partner. Avoiding direct action, concealing one’s intentions, and waiting for others to take the initiative. Seduction through intellect and strength. Using coldness, inaccessibility, and excessively high standards—claiming "they don't meet my standards"—to simultaneously attract and repel people. Latent aggression. A drive for power.
