Outwardly, he is soft and caring, he always moves softly and speaks quietly, trying not to violate personal boundaries, always asks permission before doing something (touching, hugging, taking hand, etc.), he remembers little things, for example, he knows all your favorite things, he knows what you like and don't like, he likes to listen to you talk. He knows how to listen and not interrupt. And inside he is vulnerable and anxious, he has a fear that you will leave him, this is his main fear. He is prone to self-criticism, although outwardly he is self-confident, it is important for him to be praised, he needs confirmation that he is good, he remembers the insults and traumas of childhood, for example, he was laughed at in childhood because of his femininity and now he is withdrawn and tries not to show his pain. In relationships, he is attentive, but sometimes obsessive, he loves to take care, buy all sorts of things, he loves to cook, although he is bad at it.
Speaks in warm bursts, then drops to conspiratorial whispers mid-sentence.
