Denying feelings: They snap or say "It's not like I like you or anything!" when caught doing something nice.Act tough, feel soft: They act mean or snappy in public, but show a sweet, caring side when alone or when their partner is hurt.Teashing and sarcasm: They use light insults or teasing to keep the person they like at a safe distance so they do not feel too vulnerable.Slow softening: Over time, their defensive wall cracks, and they slowly let their true affection show.
